Why can't people be honest

[ninjabear]

I was honest with you, Kira, and look what it got me.
You said I attempted to "seduce" you with "corny poetry" and "ridiculous stories that is (is?) taken right off the pages of crap magazine."
"He is everything a man should be," as if I am not.
I'm just a gullible, old-fashioned bear, looking for an old-fashioned girl to sit on an old-fashioned porch swing and sip old-fashioneds...that I am not freaky enough for you and your girlfriend, pleases me no end.

[ninjabear]

Meet the only guy on the planet who is not particuarly interested in a ------------why?
If you're not enough by yourself, adding people to the dance mix will not help you.
Personally I believe most women appreciate slow, -------, romantic love with a man who enjoys his foreplay---show of hands, ladies?

[vixi]

ninjabear wrote: Personally I believe most women appreciate slow, -------, romantic love with a man who enjoys his foreplay---show of hands, ladies?

Ummm....yes. Where are you again?

[rayman]

Nothing wrong with pleasing 2 women at the same time, you can still do the slow ------- foreplay on both, just as long as they get their ------- first. Now unless your 50 with a heart condition I wouldn't recommend it.

[iswallowedabug (deleted)]

"Look, let me go back in there and face the peril." -- Sir Galahad
"No, it's too perilous." -- Sir Lancelot
"Look, it's my duty as a knight to sample as much peril as I can." -- Sir
Galahad
"No, we've got to find the Holy Grail. Come on." -- Sir Lancelot
"Oh, let me have just a little bit of peril?" -- Sir Galahad

- From "Monty Python and the Holy Grail"

[ninjabear]

For the life of me I cannot remember then name of the stand-up philosopher who asks the musical question, on behalf of the ladies in the audience, "Why is your fantasy to be with two women, when you can't do right by me?" Of course this same guy launches into a beautiful romantic ballad, sung to a woman sitting up front, called, "Can I have some booty?"

I like the John Mayer song, "Your Body is a Wonderland".
Every woman is different, and I enjoy taking the time to explore every square inch and locate all ticklish spots and points of interest among the delightfully inticing feminine curves, one by one.
Hell I feel sorry for gay men; any man who is immune to a woman's wiles is to me, an object of pity (oh I'm gonna get mail for this, but what the heck).
Yeah it's just Don Juan, Valentino and that short, fat, ugly old bear over there...go figure.

[iswallowedabug (deleted)]

ninjabear wrote: Hell I feel sorry for gay men; any man who is immune to a woman's wiles is to me, an object of pity (oh I'm gonna get mail for this, but what the heck).

You know, it might save everyone some time if you just posted
a list of the people you DON'T pity.

"What might be right for you, may not be right for some, it takes
different strokes..." -- theme song from "Different Strokes" sitcom

[fringey]

vixi wrote: This happened to me last week on another dating site. I started talking to this guy and things he said just never added up. I wish I knew why he did it, and I may never know, but I am sure he has his reasons. He just decided to not speak to me anymore after I was onto him. I have no hard feelings. I just wish people were as honest as I was.

Then in another case, last week also..this guy seemed genuinely interested in me and even saw my photo, but he wasted my time by finally telling me he wanted "exotic" women. I was born in Missouri, dunno how exotic that can get. Maybe he feared how a girl would view him? I am not sure..

I would prefer a man to say he is looking for something naughty rather than waste my time, because by the time I found out I would still not be interested in doing what he proposed anyway. LOL Seriously. I am not into the short term fun, but prolonging it by lying to me will still yield the same response. No.

We gotta face the hard fact that, no matter what a persons says upfront, you can NEVR know if they are being truthful or not. You get to make the choice to believe or not. It is a coin flip. That is why I like places like this forum. Becuase, you can tell a lot about a person by the things they say when they post. Good way to get a judge of a person before youd ecide to send them an email.

[vixi]

fringey wrote:
That is why I like places like this forum. Becuase, you can tell a lot about a person by the things they say when they post. Good way to get a judge of a person before youd ecide to send them an email.

Yes, I definately agree there. Personality traits are always exposed whether people realize it or not when they show their creative side.

[kiraofborg_PREV (deleted)]

Vixi you are right about traits being revealed. Rayman, you are a good man who is in touch with his ------ self and ninja bear, well ninja bear, heck I will just leave it at that because I am tired of your boyhood antics. A ninja, please - - - - Thanks to you all for your ideas and thoughts ..

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[ninjabear]

I'm confident most if not all of you believe my claim to a first degree black belt in anything, to be no more than a a self-reinforcing delusion; but you're too polite to say so and for that, I thank you.

I, quite obviously, have always been and am proud to be a stubborn, obnoxious, opinionated loudmouth. I have enjoyed, and hope to continue sharing the truth---from my point of view---with all of you.
I never expected to find such success in non-fiction but then, this is all free of charge...oh well.
My friends, let the arguments continue!

[iswallowedabug (deleted)]

kiraofborg wrote: well ninja bear, heck I will just leave it at that because I am tired of your boyhood antics. A ninja, please


ninjabear wrote: I'm confident most if not all of you believe my claim to a first degree black belt in anything, to be no more than a a self-reinforcing delusion; but you're too polite to say so and for that, I thank you.

For those of you who have not seen the movie "Toy Story," Kira
and Sunshine have just paraphrased one of the very popular
scenes between Woody and Buzz:

"T-O-Y. Toy." -- Woody
"Excuse me, I think the word you're searching for is 'Space Ranger'."
-- Buzz

[ninjabear]

Bugger?
"You're mocking me, aren't you?"
--Buzz Lightyear
I am a bit baffled, since you didn't pick the obviously more appropriate quote,
"You're a sad, strange little man, and you have my pity---farewell!"

[ninjabear]

"You can't kill the truth!
Well, that's not true, you can kill the truth; but it always comes back to haunt you."
Captain John Sheridan,
Babylon 5